Nester's Modern Life

I’m an experienced traveler so I never  imaged  myself booking a package tour! However last year I was extremely tired and stressed from my work and I wanted to take a vacay but I didn’t want to sit there and do all the planning it takes to do a trip by yourself.  I didn’t feel like having to haggle with locals over prices or making contingency plans in case something fell through. So I decided to go to Thailand using a tour package. I went ahead and did and I’m so glad I did! By booking a tour package Everything was pretty much taken care for   me. A big advantage of tour package is a comfortable tour.  If something went wrong it wasn’t my problem. It frees you from having to plan your own itinerary. Planning a trip can be fun but is also surprisingly time-consuming and sometimes stressful, even for people who are mostly winging it rather than planning things to the second ("Ugh, is every damned guesthouse in the whole city booked solid on Wed...

If you've been following my blog you know about what kind of stress student loan debt put me under with the people always calling me and my family. Luckily I was able to  get out of it ! After I got out of it I was still un gainfully employed, fat, and single. My boyfriend had left me for a rich sugar daddy.  I had gained over 40lbs due to the stress of my ordeal. Most guys wouldn't even talk to me and the ones that did were...ick!  I did what most gay guys that have problems do. Try to solve them by moving to another city to get away from all the 'toxic energy'.  A friend was living in St. Paul and said I could crash with him.  Like every other queer that tries this discovers I soon found out that moving wouldn't magically solve all of my problems.  Fortunately the  LGBT Center here offered free counseling. I got an appointment and saw John. He was very nice but a little blunt. He listened and I told him how I kept getting rejected...